Monday, December 2, 2013

The Book of Ruth: Finding #Love the Biblical Way {Act like a lady, think like a—oh just be yourself}

Sorry for the Hiatus

Previous Post: I think I got his/her attention

I am a romantic at heart. No, I am not a romance novelist. However, every book that I have written has a romantic element. I am a fan of love. I love seeing happy couples together and cringe when I see unhappy couples tolerating one another—I see that a lot. When I read the book of Ruth, I was fascinated. They actually dated in biblical times. Who knew? Seriously, I read it and I want to share what I learned. I don’t know how long this series will last, but I will keep going until it is done.

As you already know, games are for children. Ladies do not play games. If your immediate retort is that men play games all the time. My response to you is that they are not really men….

Now, in terms of being lady-like, I know some of you were raised to be tomboys. You sit with your legs wider than most men do—when you are wearing jeans. Moreover, you are not into the whole prissy thing. If your idea of letting off steam is hitting a punching bag instead of going for a walk, then do not worry about it. Doing those things does not make you less of a lady.

In fact, the only thing that I think distinguishes a lady from a…non-lady is her natural beauty. In other words, do not hide the fact that you are beautiful. You are a beautiful woman, so act like it.

Do not try to approach life like the worst kind of man, just because some commercial tells you that it is okay. Be comfortable in your femininity. I am not trying to put women back fifty years, but I have seen many women adopting the habits of the bad boy.  

However, one of the great things about women is that most of them are too smart to have one-night stands. Most women actually worry about having unprotected sex and unwanted pregnancies. Most women prefer to make smart decisions.

Therefore, that natural beauty that I am talking about is that part inside of you that makes you thoughtful, loving and creative. Men have this too, but they do not have it as abundantly as women do. It is one of the things that make a relationship so wonderful, particularly for a man. The woman can give him the kind of love that he does not even know he needs. Does this mean you should be overbearingly mothering? No, please do not do that. Be crazy, sexy, and cool. Be yourself.

 Do not be his mother.

Next time: Flirt with interest.

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